SOLVED - just make that Stuff I Want item to be one of your Major Focus items (use the drop-down list in for that topic -- i change it to my short term focus) and then you can rename the main heading if you want, and you can drag the steps around to reorder it. So all you need to do is to have it become (at least temporarily) one of your major focus items and you can reorder them just by manually dragging them around. So you don't need to stress about getting the exact order at the beginning. And you can easily add steps you forgot, and move them into the correct order.

This needs to be fixed ASAP! You have the technology of dragging items around in the daily targets... so the backward planner is useless to me - I have to use mindmaps to do backward planning.